Intergenerational Benefits

With the busyness of the campus updates and renovations, I cannot help but think of my dad, who would have turned 108 on October 27. He has been gone for many years, but he is never far from my heart and mind. He was part of the builder generation. A generation who had a strong sense of duty, responsibility, and loyalty to their community. My dad didn’t live in the Tricities, but I know he would have been instrumental in building our church if he did, along with other builders like Pastor Dick Sanders and Phil Boucher, who worked tirelessly to maintain our campus.

My dad dropped out of school around 12 years of age out of necessity to work on the farm. His father was a very abusive man who showed no affection to his children or wife. My dad was the one who would stand in front of my grandma when my grandfather was striking her for no reason. My grandparents divorced in the early 50s, which was unheard of during that time, especially since my grandma was a Quaker. I know it would have taken a lot for her to make that decision. My dad’s mission in life was to end abuse in his family, and he certainly succeeded. He was a very loving and caring husband, dad, and grandpa.

Blessed to be a blessing is certainly how my father felt about helping people. However, he would not have used those words.  He would have experienced so much joy by being a part of all that we do. He was the one who led the projects that needed to be done in our town. He was always there for any family that needed assistance and never expected anything in return. He lived out daily what we call Up-to-Code. He was a much better giver than a receiver. When he injured his back and couldn’t harvest our crop, the other farmers, friends and townspeople came together and made short work of the harvest. I remember his embarrassment when his friends showed up with their combines and harvested our wheat.

My dad could relate to all ages. He was a favorite among my friends and was always available no matter the situation. It warms my heart to know that our older congregation is working with our younger generation on Up-to-Code Saturdays. Intergenerational classes and events are important to our leadership. Research shows that everyone engaged in intergenerational activities benefits from their involvement. Children and teens develop greater social acceptance and increased respect, compassion, and empathy. Older adults report improved quality of life, cognitive health, and decreased social isolation.

Jesus breaks down every barrier that might divide us, including the barrier of generations. A simple question like “You know Jesus, too? “Let’s talk” can open many new doors. We are all made in God's image; we all sin and struggle as part of the common human condition. Sharing testimonies, prayer, worship, gratitude, and hardship will draw us close to members of other generations. 

I pray you take the time this week to talk to someone from another generation. It could be the beginning of a new friendship.

Blessings,

Peggy Zumhofe

Executive Pastor